This site is intended for parents/carers of children who may display an unusual/atypical motor and/or cognitive development (or the lack of). The intent of this website is not to make a diagnosis but to encourage the parents/carers to promptly seek medical advice and/or referral to a relevant specialist.

Contacting your healthcare provider

It is important you contact your healthcare provider as soon as you suspect anything unusual

Most observations turn out to be harmless or have a cause other than rare/developmental disorders. Nevertheless, you should take action if you notice any unusual signs in your child’s development, by discussing them with your healthcare provider. Early detection increases the chances for early intervention and outcomes for your child.

On this page you can find information on visiting your healthcare provider, visiting a paediatrician/specialist, some questions you may want to ask to facilitate the conversations with them, and what to do in between your appointments.

Visiting your healthcare provider1

If you suspect any developmental anomalies in your child, book an appointment with your healthcare provider promptly.

During the consultation with your healthcare provider, you should express the aspects of your child’s development you are most concerned about, giving specific examples of atypical developmental patterns you have observed. For instance, you may explain that your child doesn’t seem able or struggles to perform some tasks they previously learned or mastered.

Your healthcare provider may perform some tests and examine your child, which may involve trying to mimic the signs you reported. These may include, but are not limited to:

  • A thorough physical exam: checking your child’s height, weight, eyes, heart, hips, and for boys, their testicles
  • They will ask you questions about their general health, eating habits, learning and behaviour at home and in different environments
  • They may test their coordination, how they move, and if they react to a stimulus (such as light or sound)
  • They may also take samples of your child’s blood or urine to test

Your healthcare provider may require for further tests or analyses to be performed to obtain a clearer picture of your child’s health, ruling out some suspected infections or illness.

If your healthcare provider feels your child’s symptoms require additional monitoring or assessment, they may ask for you to return for a follow-up appointment, or refer you to a specialist. If you notice any further changes between appointments, bring these to your healthcare provider’s attention immediately.

Visiting the specialist/paediatrician2,3

If your healthcare provider determines your child requires further assessment, they may refer them to to see a specialist or paediatrician – a doctor who specialises in looking after children. These specialists have more experience and knowledge specific to some aspects of your child’s development.

The first appointment with the specialist usually lasts up to an hour. Some of the tests conducted by your healthcare provider may be repeated, and they may ask questions relating to your child’s health, past medical history, your family and their health.

During this or a following appointment, your child’s development may also be assessed further. This may be interactive, with your child tasked to engage with toys or games. Most are fun, and the doctor might ask for your help in encouraging them, or keeping your child focused and calm. It is important that you allow the doctor to assess your child independently, without any involvement from yourself, unless requested, as this could affect the outcome of the assessments.

The specialist/paediatrician will discuss with you the concerns you have and provide you with feedback and advice based on their observations. They will agree a plan with you and offer recommendations, where needed. The next steps may include the following:

  • Suggest services that can support you or your child
  • Refer your child to other specialists for additional professional opinion, if needed
  • Arrange further medical tests (such as blood tests, scans, or genetic tests), if appropriate
  • Arrange any follow-up appointments with your healthcare provider
  • Discuss a therapeutic plan, if applicable

Questions to ask

It is important that you play a proactive role in managing your child’s developmental concerns. Take notes, share your observations, and ask questions.

Here are some questions you may want to ask your healthcare provider to facilitate the conversation:

  • Are the anomalies I have noticed normal for a child of this age? Does my child meet the typical milestones?
  • What can I do about my child not meeting their milestones?
  • Is there anything I should worry about regarding my child’s development?
  • Is there a reason my child can no longer do something they had previously learned/mastered? (give an example)
  • Do you think there is an underlying cause to these symptoms?
  • What are you testing for specifically, and what do you suspect could be of issue?
  • Can I alter my child’s daily pattern to help with their symptoms, or for them to be more comfortable?
  • How are their gross and fine motor skills progressing?
  • If a diagnosis is becoming increasingly difficult to find, would it be worth considering a genetic test?
  • What are the next steps?

Please remember: Finding out what could be causing your child’s developmental concerns could take some time. Keep attending appointments and bring any new signs or concerns to the attention of your healthcare professional immediately.

In between appointments

There may be some time in between appointments with your healthcare professional and seeing specialists/paediatricians, but it is important to continue to be proactive. Here are some suggestions of what to do in between appointments:

  • Make notes before your appointment, list any questions you have for your doctor so that you don’t forget anything
  • Download the diaries from this guide to use as a tool to track your child’s development and capture any unusual signs of potential concern. We recommend you make notes regularly and share them with your healthcare provider
  • Video record your child’s (atypical) movements or behaviour. Along with the diaries, these can help your healthcare provider understand if something requires further scrutiny, and agree on the next steps
  • If you are feeling overwhelmed, share your thoughts and concerns with your close family members, friends or support groups

Key resources

It can be helpful to track your child’s development and capture any unusual signs of potential concern. We recommend that you make notes at least once every two weeks, and share them with your healthcare provider. Below you can download a symptom diary to fill out, that will aid you in documenting your child’s development. The questions prompt you to answer with a yes or no, or a tick or cross, however you prefer, with some additional space at the bottom if you have any further comments. We also suggest that you video record your child’s (atypical) movements or behaviour, so you not only have this diary, but also a record of their development. These diaries are best suited to be used on a desktop.

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      References

      1. National Health Service (NHS). Your baby’s health and development reviews. Accessed via https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/baby/babys-development/height-weight-and-reviews/baby-reviews/ on 20 June 2024.
      2. Ealing Community Partners. Community paediatrics. Accessed via https://www.westlondon.nhs.uk/our-services/adult/ealing-community-partners/childrens-services/community-paediatrics on 20 June 2024.
      3. Kent Community Health NHS Foundation Trust. Community paediatrics. Accessed via https://www.kentcht.nhs.uk/service/community-paediatrics/ on 20 June 2024.

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